Life is in the little things

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 We are kind of pre-programmed in life, to hit the WOW factor. To be fabulous! To be the BEST Mum! To raise amazing kids and bake gluten free cupcakes. However, if you continue to live your life by societies rules, and not your own, it can leave one feeling overwhelmed, and exhausted.

Life is not about the big things. It is the small moments we need to focus on.

Personally, this year I have learnt a lot about the art of mindfulness. Noticing the small details in things. It has really helped to slow down my very over-active thoughts and as a result I have become a better partner and a better mum.


Because I am taking in and appreciating the little things. No longer was I racing around the supermarket thinking about all the things I had to get done before school pick up time. I was watching an elderly couple inspecting apples with such intensity that one might expect from a doctor doing surgery. I was smiling and cooing with a baby while her mother unpacked her trolley in front of me. When you stand still and take stock of what is going around you, oh the stories that unfold are priceless.

The most important thing to me, hands down, is family. And while it is not always sunshine, lollypops and rainbows, it is up to Mr. Woog and myself to set the tone in our house. When we fall apart, and it happens from time to time, the repercussions affect everyone. The modern day epidemic of busy-ness can break down the communication chain to the point that everyone is running their own race, rather than uniting as the team that a family should be.

Above all else, I want my boys to be happy. Their emotional and mental well being is paramount to me and for this to be thriving, there needs to be a very strong avenue of communication between us. This can be a little tricky with a teenager, but by laying down a solid foundation of openness, trust and juggling boundaries when necessary, means that open dialogue is more likely to occur.

I don’t volunteer at the kids’ schools so I can give myself a pat on the back. I do it to show them that I am interested in them and their lives. I get to meet all of their friends and chat with the teachers. I am showing them that I value them as people.

But in a time where everyone seems so connected via smart phones and social media, it is easy to find your family drifting apart. I know this because it has happened to us at times. I then call a socialization audit.

Bupa has launched a new campaign that can assist you and your family to focus on the little moments that matter. Their research showed that when it comes to nurturing children’s well-being, it is the little everyday moments that build strong connections and regular conversations. No need for big grand gestures or expensive outings. It can be as simple and mundane as unpacking the dishwasher, or hanging out the washing together.

Or if you REALLY want to treat your gang to a great time, you can do what we do every Sunday night. We have a good old-fashioned sock balling party!

Feast your eyes on this!

The four of us will sit around the dinner table playing the sock equivalent of Memory. During this time, we also go through the following weeks calendar and make sure everyone is across any plans for the week.

Rather than being connected to devices, try being connected to each other. Stuck in the car on a long journey? You cannot beat a game of Spotto! Waiting at the Doctors surgery? Tackle the crossword in that 1994 copy of New Idea together. Train up your chef assistant and have a conversation about, well anything really!

Just the small acts that lead to conversation and connections. That’s the stuff that they will remember. I recall my Mum teaching me how to make tuna mornay, how to sew on a button and how to properly weed a garden. The little stuff that probably didn’t mean much at the time, but they are the memories that remain with me.

Bupa have put together a challenge, which I invite you to join. Click here to register.

It is a free, easy and fun program that offers ideas and inspiration to make the everyday moments matter. There is a new challenge every week and the opportunity for your family to win some fabulous prizes.

And it is a lovely reminder for you to slow down. They really do grow up in the blink of an eye!

Does your family have special rituals?

Want to come to our sock balling party?